Saturday, May 31, 2014

A CONVERSATION ON FB



 A piece of advice i need more than anyone else )...farokh:-).
Acceptance : Always be flexible in life

Whenever anger appears inside your mind, you will notice that you are in a state of resistance, or non-acceptance, towards an event, a set of circumstance or the other person - sometimes all three. Resistance is the seed of all conflict between people. Resistance sustains the cycle of violence with others and with yourself, and it is driven by the emotions of fear and anger.
This is why the first step to resolve all conflict is always acceptance. It is to accept the past is past and nothing can change it. It is to accept that other people's behavior cannot be controlled, because you cannot control their thoughts and decisions, and you definitely cannot control their beliefs and perceptions (ways of looking at things).
Acceptance means that you are able to think calmly, see clearly, create options and make better decisions. Acceptance is the first step out of anger, out of your self-inflicted pain and suffering, and into peace.
Many of us try to correct the world and always live under stress. Please try to be more on “acceptance” side rather than resisting anything and everything and lead a Happy Life!
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  • Roda Langrana I am sorry to be the one to blow the lid of this story ... but you through your thoughts can and in fact do control reality ... you just are not aware for sometimes there is a gap between a thought and its resultant action and therefore when your mind creates that chaos (which you call anger) it is merely trying to change your results to what you want. As long as that anger is just i.e. desiring a better result for all parties concerned ... an overall good .. the anger is serving a purpose. Acceptance is status quo and not what God would expect his own mind to be. Change in life is the only constant factor. Stagnation is death .. a meek mind suffers too but inwardly .. and when anger is not released it festers as bad thoughts .. which keep recurring. A terrible result for our lives.I FORGOT TO ADDRESS THE ALL IMPORTANT EXPLANATION OF VIOLENCE THROUGH ANGER AND FEAR .... IT IS ONLY WHEN YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW TO USE YOUR MIND TO RESOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS THAT YOU WILL RESORT TO VIOLENCE.  JUST KNOW THAT THERE IS A BETTER WAY .. REDIRECT YOUR ENERGY TO CREATION THROUGH YOUR OWN MIND OF SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL AND THAT RAISES YOU IN YOUR OWN EYES AND NO ONE MAY EVER BE ABLE TO ATTACK YOU AGAIN VIA SNIDE REMARKS.
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  • Farokh Dordi Roda what i read from this advice is..."Acceptance means that you are able to think calmly, see clearly, create options and make better decisions. Acceptance is the first step out of anger, out of your self-inflicted pain and suffering, and into peace....See More
  • Roda Langrana as long as you have admitted that there was an anger which needed to be released ... it is fine. Now everything including anger is is to be analysed from each individual situation rather than a generalisation. In that scenario you have folded the details that come in between and only focussed on the start and finish. Now you make perfect sense. You know what is most remarkable about this conversation ... my angels or Holy Spirit showed me how God works through us. He made you start a conversation by which I expressed what God wanted me to share with others as the example of how God created the world. At first the big bang created the chaos of things like stars breaking up .. destruction of old .. depicted by anger. Then the reconstruction in peace and calm. Shiva and shakti ... the cosmic dance of nature (nature means the way things are) of brahman (God). The moral of this story is .. if something causes your mind a hurt .. as in anger .. express it and move on. That anger sometimes begins a massive creation or recreation This is how my story into spirituality began ... last night I came home from a function at the Rotary to find more sales of my book. Once I created the book it pays me over and over again and I find myself open to sharing the knowledge of creation with others to set them on their own journey. Through it I am able to share the all important lesson .. we may learn the basics from others but once your mind is given the key to opening itself up ... it will guide you as to what is your inner strength .. what are you good at. If your desire is to earn from that strength then no force on earth can ever stop you. Doubts may come to you .. eliminate them and carry on. Read my website from the bottomhttp://www.mastermindbyrodalangrana.com

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